Girls you don't have to do the things you don't want to do to lose weight for the simple fact you won't stick to it. 
Don't cut out bread, rice, pasta, crisps
Don't eat breakfast if you don't want to
Don't cut out sugar because your friend said she lost weight doing it
Don't do the keto diet if you love carbs
Don't sign up for a run club if you hate running
You have to find the solution for YOU not your friend not your family, YOU! 
I don't like cardio so I lift weights and walk i do my 10k steps per day or 70k over the week. I only incorporate cardio when I'm really cutting or have holidays to increase my output! 
I love carbs so I make them fit my diet 
I love chocolate so I won't stop sugar 
Carbs are our primary source of energy so I bloody need them Once you find a way to be in a calorie deficit and are able to sustain and enjoy it you will never struggle with your weight. I'm glad I have found mine and I hope you do, if you need help just send a message